Who Are These 3 Fools™ Hijacking Your Healing? (Let’s Name & Transform Them)

✨ So Who Are These 3 Fools, Anyway?™ ✨

(Yes… still YOU 😅)

Let’s call them out by name, shall we? Because healing starts with honesty — not hashtags. #️⃣

🚪 #1 The Codependent Clown 🤡 It’s not you — it’s the fake you. 😓

Take it easy — we have to laugh a little. Codependents are so serious.
You think you’re just being “loyal” or “loving”? Nah — you’re lowkey building your self-worth off how much someone else needs you.

Ay, bendito. Bless your ❤️‍🩹. This hurts so bad.

You’re the unpaid therapist. The fixer. The firefighter. 👨‍🚒 The Chameleon. The Martyr. The 🧽. The Savior. 🦸
The “I got it!” friend who never actually has it for yourself.

(I am speaking about me. I’m so nice! Not really! I was a leech.) 🪱

You’re so busy saving everyone else from drowning that you forgot you don’t even know how to swim. Mira profe, are you a swimologist? 🤿 🏊🏼‍♀️ 🦈
Namaste, Goenka G. Sādhu. 📿 Shout out to all the Vipassanators in da house!

Real Talk Reminder:
Love isn’t sacrifice. It’s reciprocity. It’s boundaries. It’s choosing you — even when it makes other people uncomfortable.
Uncomfortable = “Wait, they won’t like me and I need everyone to like me.” ⚖️

🚪 #2 The People-Pleasing Performer 🎭
It’s time to Dance. 💃 Dance I said 🕺

You smile. 😃
You nod. 🙂‍↕️
You say “it’s fine” when it’s very much not fine.

F.I.N.E = F**ked up, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional

You’re terrified of being disliked — even if it costs you your authenticity, your rest, your sanity. It’s ok. You and me and the rest of us learned 2B fake.

It will all be over soon. Yeah… soon takes its time. It’s really, really slow. 🐢 🐌

You’re out here passing out “yes” like it’s Halloween candy — and guess what?
Nobody’s giving you the good chocolate in return. You get the off-brand. 🍫 🤢

Say it with me:

“No” is a full-ass sentence. 🫏 Full, not Fool.🤗

🚪 #3 The Denial Dancer 💃🫣 Salsa Caliente

This one? Oof. This one’s tricky. It’s sticky. 🍯 And it oozes all over the place. 🌋

You convince yourself:

• You’re “over it.”
• That the past didn’t really hurt that bad.
• That your family “wasn’t that toxic.”
• That “it’s just how they were raised.”

You gaslight yourself into silence. I know  facing the truth feels too dam heavy.
But there are not enough love-and-light slogans to carry this old-ass shit. 💩

However, ignoring the fire doesn’t put it out. You’re not the Phoenix rising from the ashes — yet. Nevertheless, you are on the way. It’s a slow burn. Suavemente.

Here’s my truth, mi gente:
Yes, we have to stick together — or we die without evolving.
The ancestors and descendants are banking on some expansion.

As I like to remind myself — and share with students — even one (1) percent makes a big difference here on Planet Earth. 🌎

🌺 Meet the Mirror: About Me

These fools don’t go away on their own. After all, we are them.
They evolve. They adapt. They hide behind adult jobs, spiritual bypassing, and 4K stories with healing quotes over beach sunsets. 🌅

Faked out. Broke and faking that too. Crushed voice-boxes. Septic. 😞

✨ But they will be exposed.  You will be exposed. I have been exposed. ✨

By whom? By you. By me. By us. By we. By them. Mainly — it’s a me job. Let’s get to it.

When you’re ready. When you’re brave. When you decide that peace isn’t a performance — it’s a practice. Calmate por favor.

Love you long time. 😝
(It’s a throwback, y’all 🎶 Comments welcomed.)

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Even one percent of healing makes a difference

here on Planet Earth. 🌎 You Got This Namaste Gaia Gracias. Merci. Asante. Dhanyavaad. Arigato. Shukran. Toda. Thank you.

Because Your Spirit Didn’t Come Here to Settle.