How to Start Healing After Betrayal Disguised as Love™

💔 How to Start Healing After Betrayal Disguised as Love™

(Especially When the Lie Looked Like a Future)

He said, “We’re building an empire.”
Turns out… we were the unpaid interns. 🧃

Let’s be real—some betrayals don’t come with cuernos.
They show up in shared Google Docs, cozy pillow talk, and “you’re the only one who gets me” energy. 🙄

Healing from that kind of betrayal isn’t just about deleting the receipts or pretending we didn’t love them.
It’s about waking up from the fog—la niebla emocional—and taking our oxygen back. 🤕🌫️

🚫 What This Isn’t:

• No shame spirals. We saw it when we saw it.
• No spiritual gymnastics. This ache isn’t meant to be bypassed. 🤒🤢🤮💩
• No acting “fine” while deep-diving Zillow for his new house, car, and… grandchild? 🏡👀🚘

🛠️ What Healing Might Actually Look Like:

We cry in the shower… then send that overdue invoice. 💵

We reread old texts—not to suffer, but to finally see.

We stop writing excuses for him in our own journals. 📔🔥

We start feeding ourselves instead of the fantasy.

We remember: pain isn’t punishment. Sometimes it’s just our soul tapping us on the shoulder like: “Hey... remember me?”

Healing is slow.
Messy.
Deeply non-linear.
But make no mistake—we’re doing it. 💪

🧂 Little Things That Help

What’s helped you lately?

Not what looked cute on Instagram—what actually softened the ache?

Was it music? A cup of tea?
A walk without your phone?

Have you told anyone?

Or are you still trying to carry the whole brutal mess alone?

Maybe today’s the day to share it—with yourself first.
Then maybe with a safe human.
Maybe even with Spirit.

Because keeping it all inside?
That’s too heavy for one corazón. 💔💧

Let’s not just survive this.
Let’s let something go.

🎭 The Joke’s Not on Us:

We showed up.
We loved.
We gave.

That’s not embarrassing—it’s beautiful.

The punchline?
They lost someone rare.

✨ Y nosotras… nos estamos recuperando como reinas. 👑

Soul-Up™
Because Your Spirit Didn’t Come Here to Settle.