Dear Hustle-Weary Human: You’re Already Enough 🥣

Dear Human Who’s Tired of Hustling,

I’m not here to hustle for worth. I’m here to live in alignment — even when that means letting go. 🕊️

I’ve moved around a lot. I’ve had all kinds of jobs — corporate, care work, beauty, leadership, wiping butts and souls — and through it all, I’ve learned a lot about people, about grief, and about how far I’ll go to prove I deserve to exist. 😮‍💨

There was a song back in the day that said “I’m a hustler, baby.” And I still say that sometimes, but now it’s with a wink, because I’m 60 and I’m not trying to hustle anymore. 🧓🏽💅🏽

I was trained to hustle. Trained in a dysfunctional home where nobody respected anyone showing up authentically. Where resting was selfish, crying was weak, and being “good” meant being useful. And don't even get me started on church... 😵

Church was a whole hustle game too: hustling children out of their quarters, hustling teenagers out of their autonomy, hustling young adults out of natural human experiences through fear, brimstone, and full-blown insanity. ⛪🔥😬

But something in me survived the training. And I’ve had to let go of people I wanted to like me. I’ve had to say goodbye to people I wanted to love — but they were in their own hustle, and it didn’t work out. 🥀

I’ve extracted the lessons for my PEMS&F well-being (Physical, Emotional, Mental, Spiritual & Financial — because todos importan) and kept it moving. Sometimes that means zero contact — not to punish anyone, but because I’m not hustling for breadcrumbs anymore. ❌🍞

No, you can’t hustle me — and I’m tired of hustling you. It gets boring. 🙃

So here I am: raw, naked, honest, and finally understanding —

I’m not here to hustle for my worth. 🛑🌬️🪷

I’m here to live in alignment. I’m here to tell the truth. I’m here to interrupt generational hustling. And if you saw yourself in any of this, no shame. 🥣 Just breathe. It takes time to reprogram.

✨ Spanish Truthbombs for the Soul ✨

Desnuda 💃🏽 🫶 Honest, not exposed
Firme ✨ 🌳 Rooted, not rigid
Bendición 🌈💫 🕯️ What alignment feels like
Locura 🤹🏽‍♀️ 💥 What hustle tried to rename “ambition”
Suficiente 🪞✨ 🥣 You. Me. We. Already.
Valor 🛡️ 🔥 Reclaimed, not rewarded
Soltar 🌬️💫 💨 Release and repeat
Raíces 🌱✨ 🪴 What hustle tried to cut
Dignidad 👑💃🏽 🧍🏽‍♀️ Non-negotiable
Vida 🌍💫 💖 What we’re finally here to live
Soul-Up™
Because Your Spirit Didn’t Come Here to Settle. 🥣

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